Sunday, 25 August 2013

a certain type

someone told me this: I am not into long-hair gals but if I ever like a long-haired gal, you will be the one. That's flattering but funnnneee, one of the most random thing I have heard, though I understood where she was coming from.

That led me to think about types and why types matter, not as much for me in the recent years. I have grown to realise that previously, I had preferred not to be with a certain type because I wasn't out. I was still closeted and did not want to be seen being more than friends with someone who looks gay. Once I got that out of the picture, I just got to say that type in terms of looks do not matter. Like what the sweetheart said before, it's more because of how that person feels (insecure, unconfident, lack of energy) because of the way she looks that is not that attractive rather than looks per se.

just wanted to say that I am happily attached to my ideal type, that I am thankful for. It's a bonus, not a necessity.
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